I've never had a boyfriend yet alone been on a date. I'm always paranoid and self concious that I'm not attractuve enough for anyone and it hurts becuase I just feel ugly all of the time and no I don't let people know it or show it. What to do?
Most Helpful Guy
Your attitude over your looks is holding you back. I'll bet you aren't nearly as ugly as you think you are.
Have some girlfriends give you a makeover. Dress a little nicer to school. Flirt a little. See where it goes. Let's guys know you are interested. You will be surprised.0
Most Helpful Girl
HEY HEY HEY don't feel like you aren't attractive enough. Everyone has different opinions on what they do and don't find attractive. For instance, some guys will find incredibly skinny girls with blond hair and blue eyes attractive, whereas some will find plus size women with brown hair and dark eyes attractive. Or, if you are like me, some people just don't feel sexual attraction at all.
Its all in the eyes of the person.
Also being skinny doesn't always give you clear skin and rosy cheeks. I have a super fast metabolism meaning i have to eat almost double what i would if i had a normal one, and I'm still pale and get acne as much as the next girl.
And many of societies do's and donut's about how to be attractive, such as A THIGH GAP, is purely from women saying that men find it attractive, not actually from men, who often don't care whether you have one or not.0