Personally, I have a skin color which is undesirable to girls. I think I look okay but my skin color drops my overall looks to probably 3, which is why I've never had a girl liking me in my life. I see a lot of guys of my own race who are lighter skinned get much more attention from girls, even those who's features are similar to mine. My approach and confidence is fine so I've come to a conclusion for a while that it's my skin color. The only type of guys of my race and skin color who do well with girls are the ones who are either really tall, rich, or buff. I'm neither and it's a struggle with girls of all races, including my own. So if a guy is of my race and skin color, he has to really stand out in order to get attention from girls. You can say get buff but I don't get gains as fast as others plus I don't have that much time either due to being more focused towards my future. Therefore, I've really thought about becoming lighter skinned. Not necessarily white like transracial Michael Jackson type but still lighter skinned. I think that way, I'll finally have girls being interested in me without having to be really tall, rich, or buff. It may be expensive but I'll try to save money for it. I'm wondering what everyone else might think of it. If the reaction may be negative then I'll move to a place somewhere where no one will know me.
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"The only type of guys of my race and skin color who do well with girls are the ones who are either really tall, rich, or buff."
How long have you been on this site for, men of EVERY race keep saying this so changing your skin won't do anything. If your skin colour was so undesirable then your race would be dying out wouldn't it? You're being melodramatic. This is not the reason women don't want to date you.0
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