When my roommate and I first started living together there was an incident where she almost had me call 911 because her boyfriend was being aggressive and would not leave the apartment. She said she was going to get a restraining order against him, but a week later they were back together. Now I feel like he's here all the time (3 days a week). He showers in our shower, cooks in our kitchen, and sometimes stays here while we're both gone. I really don't trust him because of the incident that happened and I also sometimes feel like I have a third roommate. I wish he wasn't here so much, and I would like to talk to my roommate about it, but I am nervous. Are my feelings legitimate? Should I talk to my roommate? What would you do?
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Uh yes they are. You pay rent so you have a say. If you aren't comfortable with something then you definitely need to speak on it. You have every right to.1