please help im at my wits end here my youngest sister is being systematically beaten and terrorised by her low life scum of a boyfriend, even his own children are petrified of him , he raise his voice and the youngest child who is 11 actually shakes from head to toe with fear, i can't bare it any longer , i truly want to beat him to a pulp and leave him to die, i would have to use a baseball bat though , he punches my sister full force he's broken her nose 5times he's ripped out her earing s 3 times he's battered her with a shower pole, he's broken her arm she's had endless amount of stitches and has numerous scars because of him i have to find a way to be rid of him for good please please help
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Most Helpful Guy
no because then you go to jail and the guy is still around to terrorize your sister. you guys HAVE to call the cops... at some point you have to accept responsiblity for the situation you're in, it doesn't make the guy any less guilty or less of an a**hole, but your sister needs to decide which is worse, having him arrested or being assaulted1
Most Helpful Girl
If you beat him up, it makes you almost as bad as he is. Ask for a restraining order and get your sister to get full custody of her children. Her physical scars and medical history should be enough evidence in court, however she could give evidence via video link and ask for protection during court proceedings.
It's horrible, upsetting, terrifying and it can make you very angry. Unfortunately, you need to sit and wait it out, no matter how much you want him dead. Your sister could end up worse if you went in and tried to hurt him.
Hope it works out and he ends up in prison.0