To me having someone "like me as a friend" is worse but if they don't have any feelings, it might make it a little easier to move on from them. But hearing them say they care about me "as a friend" reminds me that I just wasn't "enough" for them.
Most Helpful Guy
Liking me as a friend. If I love her then I want it reciprocated.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know.
I guess it depends on how much you like them? Plus, some people know how to reject you in a way that makes your life easier to move on.
Some people can't tolerate being friends with the one they love while watching them being happy with someone else. Others think as long as they are there and watch the person they like happy, it is okay for them.0