On Saturday our college had a football game. I was running out of bounds, got PUSHED key word "PUSHED WHILE OUT OF BOUNDS". My head was down (trying to explain this with as much detail)... and i used one hand and pushed the cheerleader (again i DID NOT SEE HER) and i pushed her on the ground, fell on her and to make things worse i pushed off of her to get up. I did this so fast and didn't even realize it was a girl i swear.
I'am a really nice person and after the game i went up to her and said i was extremely sorry (even though not my fault). I told her i would even take her our for lunch or something cause she was hurt and did have a bruise. Well even since then a lot of people are saying i "purposle did this to her" and that "i was too lazy to push off the ground so i used her". I didn't mean any of this and was wondering how i can fix my reputaiton now? I don't want to be known as a bad person.
Most Helpful Girl
Well I don't know what you were thinking, but when you full-on tackle someone, asking them out to a date-like situation (whether or not you saw it that way, most people would) is NOT the first thing I would consider doing.
For the rest of it, I would say write her an apology letter or give her a "I'm sorry" card, or something of the sort to really show how bad you felt. People will spread rumors no matter what, you just have to continue to say otherwise.
I wish I could offer more than that but you can't control the shit other people talk.0
Most Helpful Guy
I think that's just something you're gonna have to wait out. There isn't really any way you can fix it if you've said what really happened. This is just something you'll have to wait for people to get over. Could take a day, could take a week. Accidents happen, but don't worry about it. As long as she knows you're sorry. Good luck0