So, long story short, I am a pretty insecure person regarding my appearance, my love life (almost non-existent ), me being able to study in med school etc.
And it all started from my appearance (I usually think all the girls I know are so much prettier and definitely skinnier). it has got to the point where I don't think I am good enough for a guy that I like (speaking in general, though I do have a crush)
, or to deal with med school (which turns out I was wrong, got a 9.5/10 on our first exam :) (bones))
All of my friends, my mom, my cousin even people I just talk to from time to time tell me to stop. And that I should start seeing myself beautiful and thinking positive and everything will slowly turn around, from school to boys to myself. I just can't seem to break this attitude towards me.
Please, I want serious answers, I know it's annoying to complain like this, but maybe you guys have any ideas.
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wow! congrats!!! hehe good job on your exam! :D I know you probably dont wanna hear compliments, but girl! you are super pretty! seriously...
I've been in your position for so long! and I completely get it, doesn't matter how many people tell you how pretty you are and stuff if you dont believe it yourself. If you dont feel comfortable with your body, work out or something, if you want something, you need to fight for it cuz changes come with hard work. You've already prove yourself that you are able to do awesome things, that grade u got on your exam, damn! haha put yourself more goals, thats a great way to be motivated, thats something that helped me raising my self esteem. Doing that makes you see that you are more than capable of fighting for what you want.
Something I'd like to point out, DO NOT EVER EVER compare yourself with other girls, that is the worse thing you can do, we are all extremely different and beautiful in our own way. Dont think stuff like "that girl is prettier" there is not such a thing, you are gorgeous and unique.
Be proud of who you are :)0