Our parents think the fact that my ex and my fiance's ex are on our wedding invite list is weird.
We don't get it.
My fiancee and I are HS sweethearts. We DID go to college first though so please, no one jump down my throat about getting married right out of HS and how it's nonsense or whatever lol
Anyway, we got together Sophomore year of HS.
Freshman year we both had other SO's. My ex ran in my circle of friends and after our break up that didn't change. Our families are good friends.
The same goes for my fiance's ex.
Keep in mind these are people we dated like NINE years ago. When we were children. They're still good friends of ours and I would hesitate to actually give what we had with them the honor of calling it a relationship lol
Our friends are friends with them still. Our families are still friends. Since our friend groups have merged his friends have become friends with my ex and I have become friends with his ex...
We're not traditional exes I guess.
But our parents are like adamently against them attending.
What do you all think?
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It is up to you. I think it is rare to have a good relationship with an ex. Not something I would do. I am with your parents. I think it is weird. Keeping someone in your life that was a former lover is asking for trouble in my opinion. Conflict of interest. Can cause jealously and other insecurities with you current SO. But that is your business if you can maintain a proper friendship with them. For me, I can think of better friends to invite other than someone I use to date.0