I just finished my coffee meet with this guy at my college. He was super friendly, talkative, and it lasted 2 hours. I was the one who introduced myself to him because I'm attracted to him, and it's rare that I ever talk to anyone. It's my 3rd year at this private college and I've made no friends because that's just me. I have some golden friends back at home, and honestly with my family.. That's all I want. And a boyfriend of course (; but I love my solitude.. I'm open to more friends but I just haven't had the desire.
But he has so many friends, boys and girls. He asked me what crowd I hang around.. And I couldn't even answer because I AM my crowd. Throughout the evening at points he would mention other friends, which also made me wonder if he just views me as another friend since he has other female friends.
I know I'm attractive, so I have that going for me. I've never been friend zoned before, but I honestly feel so inadequate because I can't just go off of brains and beauty... I'm smart and "unique" and attractive people tell me, but I feel like I'm never as great as how others view me and I end up just being a disappointment.
Also, I feel like he thinks I'm boring because I was like brain-farting the whole time. Like he asked me for favorites of things and I couldn't say my favorite movie or song or anything because I just blanked out. He said next time you'll have to show me your music and things because I feel bad because it's been mainly about me.
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College is kinda tough when it comes to friends... people join together in unity when they are scared of unknown events to come... for example, you seem to have dealt with moving away from home just fine... others (like him maybe) don't take it so well and they feel the need to get involved with all sorts of people just to seem "cool" or not "lonely"... Yeah you should just go for it as it's not like he spends two hours drinking coffees with all his other friends right?1