Peopl who have experienced bullying... do you feel ashamed of yourself even temperarily? '
If so... why?
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Well, humans are highly social animals and therefore have an inherent drive to be accepted by others. Being bullied is being rejected by one or more other people. Since this goes against the inherent urge for acceptance, one automatic reaction is to assume that the rejection was for a reason -- felt as guilt.
It is only with developed self confidence and, for most people, the confidence that comes from a social support base, that a victim of bullying can continue to feel good about themselves and not internalize the rejection.
1. This is obviously differently expressed in individual humans. From the very introverted to the highly extroverted, this varies; but the drive is present to some degree in all people.1