I don't know if others have noticed this but it really irks me that if a girl talks about babies in any manor, except maybe saying they don't want them, people, especially guys, act as if the girl is baby-crazy and to stear clear of her. But, i've had several guy friends say "we'd make beautiful babies" about some other girl. Or "when I have kids.." etc and nobody thinks twice. It feels like a double standard/sexism and I wondered if anyone else has experienced this too.
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it's because a girl can protect herself easier against a "baby crazy" guy, whereas a guy will have a harder time protecting himself against a "baby crazy" girl. It's easier for her to "forget" the pill, and cause an "accidental" tearing in a condom, than it is for him to trick her (given how he can't really controll her taking the pill).
Also it's the fact that girls got a bigger rep for baby trapping.
THAT is why a "baby crazy" girl is by some seen as a red flag, whereas for guys it's not so.2