If you could tell your 14-15 year old self anything, what would it be?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Don't get hung up on:

    1) What if's...

    2) Girls.

    Just go for the things you want and be happy.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Just keep doing what you're doing, life turns out pretty great.
    Focus on internships in college.
    You won't be lonely forever.
    Don't spend too much time feeling rejected by the boys in your hometown; you meet one that truly the most perfect man in the world and he cares about you greatly.

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What Guys Said 22

  • "Everything you currently believe about everything, well all of it is false, and currently you're a total idiot".

    That's what I'd probably say to myself back then.

    Or I guess I could just say:
    "You're wrong."

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  • -Stop being such a beta
    -Learn how to approach and date women a bit sooner
    -Lift weights sooner!! (I started at 17)
    -Work harder in football so you actually would have played lmao
    -Stop blowing cash and save more money

    @tony72722

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  • "Pull your pants up and start humping all the chicks who show you interest instead of chasing that one broad".
    "Your dad's an idiot, don't listen to him"
    "You're anxious because you need to fight. That itch you feel, that anger that never goes away, that energy that is always there, all of that is because you aren't in your element. Fighting is the only way you can truly express yourself, so get your ass into wrestling and train MT and BJJ."
    "Your school sucks, your teachers aren't engaging, but do your work anyway just to get this bullshit over with"
    "That one girl is a ho.. start an escort service"
    "Feminism doesn't benefit you and you don't owe women shit, so stop kissing their asses."

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    • Forgot "Work hard, save your money, buy books on homesteading, and get the fuck out of this culture and live off the land, because eventually you will resent society and the people in it, and you won't want to play the game that everyone else plays".

  • Oh my god so many things but I'll keep it minimal.

    -Listen to your parents
    -Pay attention in school
    -Disregard dating till college
    -Don't enlist. Finish college and become an officer.

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  • You got ADD get tested for it...

    WOuldve helped me out a lot if i knew it 3 years earlier :P

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  • It'd be a whole word document

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  • anything i think now
    but if its like 12-13 self then probably dont start playing games because it will fuck up your life

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  • I know it sounds impossible but you'll get a girlfriend eventually. And don't do anything stupid

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  • Is killing your younger self an option?

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  • don't be so shy/introverted, take better care of your friends and play less games

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  • It won't get better, but keep dreaming. The world without dreams is so dark.

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  • I would tell him to learn self control and to keep a cool head and to start important good habits.

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  • Don't engage in relationship in young age.

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  • conceal don't feel don't let them know.

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  • Take counseling sessions to make informed decisions on your career.

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  • stop playing dota and stop being shy :'(

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  • You're gonna get through this

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  • Don't bother dating until high school

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  • Consultants list is good though would be a different sport for me.

    Also expect more from girlfriend and dump them if they aren't satisfying me.

    I'd been groomed to expect nothing but her to bask in my love basically.

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  • Talk to people

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  • You really don't wanna know what just came to my mind lol.

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    • Yes i do xD

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    • xD nice. I love how most of these people are saying things like "love yourself" (which is amazing advice) but then your comment 😂😂

    • Sorry XD

  • Dont trust everyone

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What Girls Said 20

  • 'You're going to meet some people soon. You think they're going to be your friends and they'll be very nice to you at the beginning. Then they're going to start telling you that you're stupid or worthless and they'll make it sound like a joke, but it's going to hurt. Remember that they're lying, they're not your friends, and you are not being a bad friend if you put your feelings first for once.'

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  • You are very beautiful and in 4 years you'll start dating. No need to send nudes to every guy on the internet. Ignore all the kids at school because they don't realize how much you are helping your community. Some day, you'll get a glass award and $100 for everything you've done. No need for suicide, the medication sucks but one day your mom will listen and realize how bad it's fucking you over.

    I can go on and on... life sucked until I became and adult.

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  • I would tell her nothing! hahah

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  • It doesn't get any better. Stop hoping it will.

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  • I would say "for gods sake girl, learn to love yourself and don't self harm".

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  • Studying is good, but you should a little bit of fun as-well :p

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  • that you're gonna be smoking hot one day. lmao jk
    i'll just say that the problems which seemed enormous at that time are nothing... and to stop being so depressed

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  • Well, I'd tell my younger self to stand up for yourself, ignoring people will not make anything better. Leave that fuckboy alone! He's not worth you getting upset everyday.

    Probably the two biggest things.

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  • "Hey girl, yeah that cross country meet your going to have the day before your sophomore year is gonna be 92° & so even though it's your first meet, don't run to hard or your gonna pass out... But besides that you're doing good 👌"

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  • Stay away from that guy. He will make you dump him and then he will make you break your own heart several times

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  • Don't fall for muffin, lol. And something else.

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  • Don't worry everything will be fine eventually be patient and love yourself

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  • Oh God, just do something. Don't give up and cry like a b****.

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  • I would say to my 14 yr old self "bleach your hair now" and also "don't get blunt bangs"

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  • Stop masturbating so much.

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  • I would tell me that I am beautiful and I attract anyone!

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  • Move in with your father.

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  • that when you turn 16 your gonna become famous i am currently modeling and singing :)

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  • To not depend on other people for your happiness. Place your happiness in your own hands. Forgive people, but NOT for the same mistake twice.

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  • I wish I could tell my 14 year old me that everything will be fine and things will get better but that's a lie... So I suppose it would be something like, just keep your head up, try to become more confident and saving money at a young age is a good idea! Also stop smoking while you still can and don't touch the weed...

    Although I doubt it would have changed anything..

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