Okay so how can I look or "come off " looking confident? Any ideas?
Most Helpful Guy
The absolutely most important key, is to not care what people think about you.
The more you take what everyone says to heart, the more captive you are to the opinions of others, and the less independent you will be.1
Most Helpful Girl
Just spend time with yourself and learn to love yourself. The past two years I've spent ample amount of time with myself, secluding myself from others. Without hearing the flaws they talk about within themselves (which causes me to reflect on my own self and view flaws in a negative light that I'd prior not cared about), I learned to accept who I am fully.
I accept that I have flaws and that they might be a deal breaker for some people, but for other people those flaws are my quirks. And quirks are great. Quirks add character. They make you an individual.1