Okay, so it dawned on me that some men think that women who keep their friend from leaving with a guy she just met at the bar a buzz kill. Don't they know that if we do that we know it is what our friend would want. I would always tell my friend when a guy is just trying to get her pants. The times she didn't listen to me I was right in the end ( she is a grown woman and all I can do is warn and suggest). Am I killing her fun by being the lame friend? Just wondering.
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I think your friend was obviously looking for sex - otherwise she wouldn't have left with the guy.
She did it on purpose - no matter how unthinkable you might find it.
She might pretend it was a mistake, but we all know it wasn't.
In her mind you're probably being a buzz kill but also a dignity preserver - she needs this delusion (i. e., she needs you to think she didn't want this) to think she's still morally dignified...0