I hate everything about my body and think it's so ugly. I have no curves, flat chest, flat ass, and I even think I'm ugly... down there as well.
Im so nervous about the day were I'll be with a guy for the first time because I'm just so insecure about him seeing me naked. Even in a bathing suit I feel insecure. And whenever I see pictures of other girls with nice bodies, I get so jealous and upset.
What do I do to stop feeling this way?
Most Helpful Guy
Your "first time" with a guy needs to be with a man who loves you enough to stick with you, to date you, and to give his life to you- before ever seeing you naked. In other words, no sex before marriage.
He is going to fall so deeply in love with you- not your body, which he will find beautiful regardless, but your sweet, soft, caring, genuine, sensitive heart that will love him selflessly.
No, for this man, your body, every curve, or lack of a curve, will be absolutely sensual, beautiful, a feast for his very eyes!
You needn't worry about a thing, God made you stunningly beautiful for just one man. Be sure you know him, listen to your instincts, give your heart and life to God (Jesus), and He will direct your path.0
Most Helpful Girl
Go to a gym? I'm sure you can form some curves somewhere... If you're ugly, then try your best to have awesome hair, it can make a difference in your whole appearance, especially if you start a strict gym routine.. Etc... And it also helps if you are into some type of sport or any activity.. Or just something you're really good at... It makes people more interesting, more attractive, when you have a passion whether it be big or small. .. And when someone starts liking you, they tend to see your little imperfections as perfection in their own way.. (For the most part).
You can also try waist training to form your figure.. I don't know if that actually works, but you can always give it a try.0