Let's say someone was insulting you or whatever... Can you defend yourself?
I dont mean physically!
Most Helpful Guy
I usually just ignore and act like the bigger man, it always worked, that's why I was never bullied in school, cause I projected the "I don't give a fuck about what you're saying about me", so they stopped, and now if someone talks shit about me I just do the same.
My worth isn't measured in the words of other people, it's measured in what I think I'm worth, so I couldn't care less what they think.
This has always work cause people realize that what the other person is saying, is nonsense, cause if they see I don't care, they won't care either.
I will only step up and confront the person if what they're saying is gonna really affect me personally, like for example telling my girlfriend that I'm cheating, or that I'm saying stuff behind her back. Stuff like that.3
Most Helpful Girl
I can, but I usually avoid confrontation and conflict. I prefer to just walk away.4