I've noticed %99.99999 of people don't date to marry nowadays. I'm a virgin and don't want to have sex, gay or straight, unless I've been in a relationship for at least a few months and I know that my partner doesn't have any STDs. Should I bother with dating at all?
Most Helpful Guy
Nothing wrong with wanting to wait. I would want to be comfortable and confident with a new dating partner as well. I also think it would take a couple of months before I was totally comfortable to have sex too. I think it is wrong to look for dating partner with only marriage in mind because you are looking for too many things at once. I think a more natural progression is to find someone you are attracted to, then had the personality you like and go from there. You need to date someone long enough to figure out if they are marriage material or not. I simply do not believe you can see those traits or qualities from day-one. So in the mean-time, have fun, date, experience life!0
Most Helpful Girl
I am taking a break from dating, but when I continue I will not be sleeping around either. There might be some guys that will respect your wishes, or even want to wait as well. So I wouldn't say give up, but you will have to have patience to find the right person.0