I'm a freshman in college this year and I met this girl named Mo about 2 and a half months ago. I would always go to this study room where I could get my homework done and one day she came in and asked if she could do her homework with me. Of course, I said yes, and then we became friends straight away. Right away I could tell that she had an awesome personality and that we'd eventually be best friends. I absolutely adore her as a person and wish I was more like her in some ways. I love spending time with her, and whenever I'm not with her I miss her. I also know that I care about her more than I've ever cared about any of my other "girl" friends. I honestly do think I like her more than just a friend, but it's grossing me out because I personally don't want to be bi. I am very accepting of other people liking the same sex, I'm just not ok with myself being like that. So I don't know what to do. I love her and don't want to imagine my life without her in at as my best friend, but I also know that if I stay friends with her then my feelings might get stronger. In your opinion, what do you think I should do? Anything and everything helps! Thank you.
- Stay friends with her, and ignore your feelings33% (1)20% (1)25% (2)Vote
- Stop being friends with her until your feelings go away33% (1)20% (1)25% (2)Vote
- Tell her how you actually feel and risk your friendship34% (1)60% (3)50% (4)Vote