Ok so I've often told my girlfriend that I really care about her, that she means a lot to me.
She once asked me, "what are your new years resolutions?"
to which i replied. "i usually don't make new years resolutions, i think if i want to make changes or do something new, i don't like having to wait till one time of the year to do it. I do it right now". She replied "makes sense"
Now... with that example I thought she'd understand where i come from. So I often buy her gifts, small things to bigger, taking her to restaurants, buying her chocolates etc.
I told her, I didn't know what to get her for Christmas. I was trying to figure out the perfect gift. So I bought her expensive chocolates and I said "this is a placeholder for now". I told her that I really care about her but like new years resolutions, I don't want there to be only one time of the year where I show you how much you mean to me. So I told her that I will always give her things to show that.
But she see's it as me not caring because it wasn't a good enough present and she said she thought Christmas would be special because it was our first. she wants to break up
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She sounds like a gold digger. She's supposed to be your girlfriend not a prostitute you buy affection from with expensive or regular gifts and money. If I were you I'd be the one ending it because she obviously has no feelings or respect for you. Relationships shouldn't be based on gifts alone.1