I have a huge crush on this girl for about a year now. but we have never talked
she looks at me occasionally (for 3-4 seconds), which is very nice I want to give a shy little smile to just make my feelings more obvious but I am scared that she'd think I am creepy or awkward
once I held door open for her where she was 20m behind! she said thanks with smile and that's been the only word she's said to me ( I still picture that moment and remember her voice eventhough it was more 7 months ago!)
we see each other every week as we are in the same college ( not in the same class)
I was thinking to send her a message on fb but as we are not even friend there its probably rather stupid
I have a feeling that she likes me back judging on her glance.. I realllyyy like her and can't get her off my mind...
sadly I am very shy and its just like ice on my teeth to strike a convo with her
Can anyone help and tell me how can I get her attention ( preferably without talking) or to start a convo and what to tell her?
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Do add her on facebook. If she reclines, she's not interested.
Work on your confidence. A 'shy' smile can be awkward or even creepy, try to make it a friendly smile. If she smiles back, she at least thinks you could be a nice person. Next time go talk to her. If she acts creeped out, you either did a terrible smile or she's absolutely not interested. If talking in real life is too much you can try facebook but that might seem slightly antisocial. If you do that, make up for it by chatting with a more confident tone. And try to get to ask her out. Dont make it an obvious date, just call it hanging out sometimes.