Why do guys like girls that are hard to get?
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Different guys have different reasons, but one thing that will be consistent is that guys who tend to like "hard to get" girls tend to have at least SOME confidence.
Some guys, most often really attractive guys who get girls easily, simply like a challenge - it isn't interesting for them if the girl is way too easy to get; that just makes her like most girls.
For other guys, it's because he knows that she's legitimately hard to get (rather than just playing games), because she's attractive enough to be in high demand - lots of other guys find her attractive and he has to stand out from that crowd in order to get her. Thus, she kind of becomes a prize to earn/win, and something of a trophy once won.
And for still other guys, if a girl is hard to get, it indicates that she doesn't take sex (or relationships) lightly, and thus he can be more confident in her feelings and in her sexual loyalty.
The guys who like "easy" girls are either "players"/"collectors" who want to sleep with every possible girl who is at least remotely attractive, OR are guys who are either desperate for sex (because they have no confidence or "game") or who know they have little attractiveness or social value to most women and are content to settle for whatever they can get.
Now, keep in mind that these are generalizations, and there are always exceptions to generalizations - but that the generalizations are still true the majority of the time.5