I'm not very beautiful but I think I have a pretty cool personality. I'm very outgoing, talkative, funny, and I have a wide variety of hobbies.
I heard from my dad and brothers that men are visual and tend to only go for what they see.
I wanted to know; even if I might not be exactly appealing to someone, is it still possible for me to change the way they see me once they get to know me and see beyond looks?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes I believe so, I mean, physical attraction is a somewhat important step in finding a romantic partner, but that doesn't mean you have to look like a god to find someone. And in the end, personality matters most, a beautiful person with the personality of a rock isn't going to get very far once people start to talk to them. However, having a wonderful personality will pay dividends when trying to find someone you truly want to be with, someone you can talk to and relate to, a connection that's much more than skin deep. Some guys do pick partners simply based on looks, as your dad and brothers said, but not all do. And besides, if that is you in the profile pick, I don't think you have anything to worry about in the looks department. You are a pretty young woman. Just be yourself and I'm sure you'll get along great.0
Most Helpful Girl
Pretty much! hahah!0