When i see comments or hear comments from guys about womens bodies i can't help but think "really? i dont see it". It just seems like guys in general have low standars regarding what an attractive female body is. OR that girl, or me, have very high standars on what an attractive women body looks like.
Which on do you think it is?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't really think it's either. It doesn't have to do with sex or gender, it's mostly an individual thing. Some people have high standards, others have low standards.
But if I had to pick one, it would be women who have higher standards, For the simple reason that they have much more of a choice when they want to have sexual partners because it's a million times easier for girls to get cock than for men to get pussy. If you're an average looking guy, you already have to be happy if you manage to bring back any girl at all to your place after a night out. If you're a girl, you can always ask yourself "mmh, or should I have gone home with that other guy? Or that third guy?" cuz any of them would have probably accepted your offer for sex.1
Most Helpful Girl
I read somewhere that women spend more time on social media than men. I think that impacts our view because all we see is perfect instagram models and photoshopped celebrities etc. When a women posts a real body, we're not used to seeing that and we start to compare to the images we see online. I don't see "real" womens bodies as much as a man does because I don't sleep with women. My reference comes mostly online. Men however have lots of real life female bodies to reference, and also they're attracted to women so they appreciate the good qualities which over taken the bad. Where women observe the bad and forget the good. We see muffin tops, guys see a nice shape. We see stretch marks, they see boobs. Since were flooded with images telling us whats perfect, how to look perfect etc we critique ourselves just as hard. It's hard to separate that harsh critique that we do on ourselves when evaluating other women.1