I'm 26 and very aware that in 4 short years, I'll be 30. I've never been in a serious relationship, and the chances of me being ready/willing to get married in 4 years are pretty slim, and the possibility of finding someone seems even slimmer. But I've always wanted to be a mom, once I reach a certain point in my career and financial status. I feel like I'll probably just have to do this one on my own, and I'm okay with that. I know being a single mom is incredibly difficult, thus the importance of financial status as well as family support.
Do you think this is crazy? I especially want to hear from some single mothers, but all opinions are welcome.
Most Helpful Guy
what the hell why do you wanna be a single mom why can't you be a mother with a partner it makes no sense0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm ok with people making that decision if they are independently wealthy, via donor sperm though I think it's better to have two GOOD parents in the picture. Adoption makes more sense, to me, though it's not easy to accomplish, either.
I think it's morally wrong to dupe a guy into unprotected sex to have a baby he doesn't know about, though. Even if you don't want child support...
Also, 4 years is a long time and you don't suddenly become infertile right at 30. Why not put extra effort into actually meeting someone?0