I'm not okay... lonely and pining for someone who I'm positive is not pining for me. I need to cleanse and be emotionally stable before anything else. Any suggestions on how?
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Give yourself time, and find out ways to let it all out --healthy. If you're positive he's not into you, distant yourself from him, and you will naturally recover. Your days are probably filled with grief right now though, so find out healthy ways of relief. Poetry worked for me once my girlfriend broke up with me; writing a whole book is now working for me after I'm basically in the same situation as you. I also turned to reading teen novels, and watching movies. I'd sometimes let tears out intentionally; it felt good to feel. These are way better than randomly bursting into tears while trying to sleep, but even so, that's still normal. It's sad, and suffering, yes, but it's just what human nature puts us up to.1
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