Could learning how an online pen pal looked change your opinion of him or her?

If you fell in love with someone online, finding only afterwards they where unattractive or their ethnically was different from yours, would your feelings for that person change?


0|0
2|1

Most Helpful Girl

  • If someones ethnicity is enough for me to see them as visually un-attractive, then that probably means I am racist.
    I may not be one that is overt (In the open) but I may be one who covert (one that possesses hidden feelings).
    There are gorgeous people in every race.
    For one to completely ignore the fact because a certain set of features don't appeal to them, or a hair type, then yes they are racist.

    Now, lets assume this person is the same race as me.
    Even if they weren't my "type" I'd still give them a shot.
    After all, when looks fade what is left?
    Substance.
    Value.
    Real Conversation.

    0|0
    0|0
    • If someone puts so much emphasis on superficial value, it leads me to see what is MORE important to them.

What Girls Said 1

  • Probably because while mental attraction is important, so is physical attraction. Otherwise I feel a relationship will not work.

    0|0
    0|0

What Guys Said 1

  • I guess so💁🏻

    0|0
    0|0
Loading...