Just an example, I asked her why she would not allow the children to visit me and I asked if her mother restrictred her from visiting grandparents. She said no but it's different because I don't want my children visiting you. I said to her dont' you think that is a bit mean and her reply was "just for that you are not coming to visit them this week" and she stomped off. Usually we have 1 weekly visit with them for dinner for 2 hours but this week I missed out. This really hurts me because I can't do anything right by her and always feel like I am treading on eggshells. I try to keep the peace because I want to see my grandkids. She is not a bad person but for some reason she has always hated me.
Daughter-in-law hates me and uses grandchildren to blackmail me. What should I do?
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I don't know what to tell you to do, but I'd hurt someone for playing those kinds of emotional games with me. You literally asked the most simple question you could ask, and she reacted that way. That's something that personally kind of pisses me off... but I also don't understand the subtext of what could have been implied or how she might have taken it... so I guess I don't know at all.0
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