I've been in a relationship with someone for little over a year. We always talk about getting married and starting a family. I love him dearly. The only thing that gets me to questioning what I really want in life is... his family. Have you ever heard of the term "ratchet"? Well, it describes his family perfectly. He has baby momma drama, and his children, well let'sjust say that would rather not be around them. Im honestly not sure if all the love in the world is worth it if I dont mesh well with his family. I try so hard to be respectful to people but when I am constantly being disrespected, I turn into a completely different person. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth it.
And I guess that's my question, should love be enough to plan your life with someone?
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No, love is certainly not enough. You need to take all practical matters into consideration as well.
In your case, it may be possible to work around the issues, but it's gonna be tough. REAL tough.0