Would you tell a person they are bad in bed?

  • That's rude.
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  • Yup, in a heartbeat.
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I was watching something and just seen the scenario. Just curious.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm assuming this is after we've already talked about what we like in bed and I've directed them on what I want right? I'd simply say we were sexually incompatible. I don't just think someone is bad they just enjoy sex differently. It's a bit arrogant to say they're bad in bed if I don't like how they like sex. Of course if they're just being completely selfish in bed then I'd call that bad.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would rather tell the guy what feels good and build off of that. or vice versa if the tables are turned.

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    • Yeah, or take lead so he can see what to do in the future.

    • Absolutely! It's probably better to show than to say for fear of having the words misconstrued.

What Guys Said 17

  • I wouldn't. You see everyone likes different things in bed. Someone I might think is bad in bed another guy might think is good in bed. If a girl likes it rough and the guy is always gentle she may call him bad in bed, or the reverse, if a girl likes it gentle and the guy is always rough, he would be considered bad in bed. Personally I love foreplay and I live giving and receiving oral sex. So id be considered good in bed to a girl who love sa guy to go down on her and loves to suck dick. I might be considered bad in bed to a girl who doesn't like either of those things. So keep it to yourself, its only your opinion.

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  • I wouldn't say it like that, but yes I would let them know if I was unhappy.

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  • I think people should talk to each other about what they like and dislike - Having the patience to explore ways to make it better

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  • I wouldn't just tell them that they are bad, that doesn't help anyone. I'd tell them what they should do better or how they can improve.

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    • That would be helpful. I would want to know if I were bad. I honestly don't know if I would day anything if he were bad. I would probably just gently lead him in the right direction. Lol

  • Well if you never tell anyone that, how are they ever going to be better? I would like to be told if I was bad, so that way I don't carry on doing the same thing and reevaluate my tactics.

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    • Exactly, I feel the same. I want to know what I an doing wrong.

    • Right? I'd feel really awkward if after months she just said "You're doing it wrong". I'd be like what? How come you haven't told me you don't like it? lol

  • I wouldn't say it straight up, that would be mean. Would try and talk about sex and try to give hints on stuff I like.

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  • Politely and respectfully, and let them know what they can do to improve.

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  • Depends on how receptive they are to adapting. If she is one of those women who are resistant to everything fun, then fuck it see ya. But I would absolutely never tell them why I quit it. I'll make some other excuse up.

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    • Usually when it's good, there is plenty of positive reinforcement, so if people aren't gushing about how good you're doing, you aren't.

    • I agree. Also what's the point, if you aren't having fun or trying to procreate.

  • No not that. Constructive criticism would be better.

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  • Well I'm probably crap myself considering I'm a Virgin. I wouldn't know what good sex feels like 😂

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  • Yes, but I'd tell them how they can be awesome... don't just say they are bad tell them how to be sexually awesome ;)

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  • I try not to.

    You know, just in case I get in a really long dry spell one day.

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  • I would say.. git gud gurl XD.

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  • I Will try not to hurt her while saying this and if I find that i can't say to her without hurting I will not tell her, let it be.

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  • Yes, I prefer to tell the truth.

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  • Yes, so that I can help them get better

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  • I think it would depend how you word it , maybe try and suggest improvements or what could be done differently than all out saying it was horrible

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What Girls Said 8

  • Just be more vocal during sex tell them how you want it

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  • I would, but not bluntly saying it. Probably just tell them that they can do much better.

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  • It's rude, but I'd just leave not tell him.

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  • I wouldn't know since I won't have past experience to compare. :)

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  • I have been told this :(

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  • Yes I have told guys that before and they got mad, over the phone. I was being honest

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  • Not in that way, but I would tell him I'm not enjoying it or he isn't fully satisfying me and he should get the hint. I would tell him what to do to improve and we could work on it together.

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  • If my suggestions to help him pleasure me didn't work, I might.

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