Can you give me details?
Most Helpful Guy
For me it's whenever I drastically lose interest in other girls. Like if a hot girl walked by, instead of looking back or checking her out, I wouldn't look at her anymore than a normal person. Not that I feel bad or think I shouldn't, just because whenever I love someone I literally am only attracted to that one person. I'll still think a hot girl is hot, I just wouldn't be interested.
But then again I've only fallen 2 times, and the first wasn't really that much. The 2nd I didn't ever date her, and she used me, but I really fell for her. I don't know why, it's very hard to get me to fall in love. I'm not super good looking and think I'm better than everyone or anything, it's just really hard for me to fall in love. Haven't seen her in forever but I still compare her to other girls, but I turned my love into hate so whoever I fall for next will probably be the opposite. She wasn't anything special really, but when I was deep into the feelings, I felt like she was. Love's a really hard thing to explain, at least for me.1
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Most Helpful Girl
I've never been in love.
The times I thought I was in love turned out I wasn't.
Like when I actually thought about it; I realized I didn't love that person.
I guess because when it comes to love I tend to be realistic and put everything in boxes and places; and if something doesn't fit I toss it out of my heart.
I almost got married last year and a few years before that the guy I had a huge crush on got married, and when I was 10 and people found out I liked this guy they turned it into a living hell for me.
Been around friends who had major heartbreaks who dated sociopaths, seen marriages crumble (not my parents but other people)... love between significant others isn't something that is super appealing to me; although half of me would like that my mind tells me that it isn't a big deal.
There are many forms of love and the romantic/sexual kind isn't on my top list. :S although I can be really good at giving relationship advice and come up with the best sexual fantasies I just allow my mind to take control of situations and my feelings. I don't allow myself to get overly emotional or attached.
If I do start to like someone I basically tell myself that they are not for me; see if the con outways the pro and then hook them up with someone else in my mind... giving myself an imaginary heartbreak and then moving on.1
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