What must a guy say to introduce himself to a stranger or to get her interested? (No smartass comments please or ill block you immediately) serious answers only please
Most Helpful Girl
Because she's a stranger your feedback will be close to 50/50. She will either be attracted to you or ignore you completely.
Some women don't like to be mean so they'll be nice but niceness does not indicate that she finds you hot.1
Most Helpful Guy
You gotta be attractive to her, that's the first thing. Just like food, it all starts with how it looks/presentation.
Then it's about confidence. I'm sure you're tired of hearing that, but it's the truth. An employer is more likely to hire a confident man, than one that seems scared. Women are the same. If you appear confident, she's more likely to find you interesting.
Then you gotta start a conversation... an interesting one. Talking about her job while she's out for a drink, may not be the best idea, since she's probably there to get her mind off her job. So talk about something that's fun, something you notice in your surroundings, or something that has been going around in the news, that may be fun to talk about. Your objective is to get her to enjoy your company, and LAUGH. If she's laughing you have more than a foot in.
Flirting is important too, cause you don't wanna come off just as a friend, you wanna make sure she knows that you want more, and you wanna make her want more than a friendship with you, so you gotta build some sexual interest, and by this I don't mean start feeling her up or talking about sex, but teasing her a little, small touches on her hands or knee, can do the job.
Obviously you'll fail many times, but that's fine, cause everyone is different, and everyone will react differently. In order to be liked by some girls, you gotta be disliked by others.0