Things that keep me from being happy.;
-Wanting my exes to crawl back to beg me to return with them.
-Me jealous of other girls and thinknig they are hotter than me..
-My past of being bullied.
-Seeking validation that I am a loser thus getting treated like shit.
How do I deal with these to be happy?
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like you care a bit too much about what others think about you
Just do you! Then you will be happier0
Most Helpful Girl
1) it sounds like you have low self esteem since rely on your exes/boyfriends to keep you happy
2) find thing about your body you love and whenever you see a hotter girl then you remind yourself of what you love about your own body
3) I don't know what you were bullied about but if it's any consolation to you, I was bullied at high school too; you'll be surprised at how many people were. It is hard overcoming it however what I try to do is focus on the positive in my life and try to become a better person where I can.
4) whenever you feel like you're trying to er validation from others remind yourself of what you're good at and what you can do. Affirmations work really well. Tell yourself you're strong and you can do anything. If you don't believe it at first tell yourself that you're learning to become stronger.1
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