Three factors fall into me never achieving this goal. 1) I'm 15 so in 2 years I graduate and head off to college. 2) I'm very single. 😂😭 3) I don't have a job. I just have allowance. Anyway I have always thought about being a mom and if not having a kid I wanted to do the pregnancy project because kids really interest me. I also want to see who would judge me and what friends would leave me. But the bad part to wanting to be a mom is being judged plus there are tons of pregnant people at my school. It's so sad and they are 15 or 16. Anyways I probably won't get pregnant Because that's bad being young. But in your opinion, what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I would wait... babies/children are expensive. You should wait until you can afford it on your own. If you have a baby now, it is your parents that have to take care of it. I think it would be selfish at this point in your life make them rearrange their life to take care of your child.
I know the idea of being a mother is attractive... hell I love being a dad/father, but the first thing about being a parent is thinking about how your actions could effect them and the other people around you.
Being a mom sounds like fun, but it is a lot of hard work and requires patience. You can kiss your Friday and Saturday night going out with friends goodbye. In addition, most guys your age don't want to adopt a child, so it would be extremely difficult to meet a guy.
Ultimately, I think you would be giving up what is suppose to be the fun part of your life, and having to become an adult instantly.1
Most Helpful Girl
Get that silly idea out of your head.0