I'm not going to stop being how I am because of what others think, but still I have seen it happen so often now. I have been seeing it happen all my life to myself, friends and family. I don't understand, don't we all complain about how we need more nice people?
Most Helpful Guy
That's life you know.
Okay being nice is good, rare and respectable!
The only thing that most of the nice people like you... don't see that not everybody deserves to be treated nicely...
I have started following such rules for me being nice to anybody...
1. is s/he nice to me?
2. what's his/her nature?
3. did s/he takes advantage of people?
4. is s/he really worth being nice to?
I mean its good to be nice... but its foolish to be nice to everyone. This is not about being nice, its about having self respect.0
Most Helpful Girl
People like to take advantage of nice people and try to push their buttons.0