My dad left my mom for another woman, and he did her bad.. i mean bad.
i went through it too, but not like she did... they were married for 17 years.
she actually tried to committ suicide but the only thing that stopped her was me.
its been like 4 years since all that happened, and i think she's over it, well not over it but she turned her sadness into anger and basically hates him now.
we got into an argument, a bad one we don't usually argue because we're all we have,
but we did, and i called my grandma to see if i could go stay with her for awhile
my mom got super super emotional and started crying she said i can't believe you would leave me just like your father did
after she calmed down i apologized and she told me if i were to ever leave her she doesn't think she would be able to go on..
meaning she would committ suicide i guess
we went through years of counseling
well i did, she just came to drop me offf and pick me up she never went and i think she needs it bad.
why would she kill herself if i leave?
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Now that is somthing you mom should have never done it puts a heap of guilt on your shoulders because if you did leave and she did it you would feel you killed her. Talk to your mom about this. (I'm assuming the argument wasent that big deal and that your mom provides/loves/cairs for you) second you should NOT be the only thing she has. She should do other things she cairs about because eventually you will have to move out and get on with your life. Book club, your school events, are a great way for her to meet frends. make sure she is getting out of the house sign both of you up for a food kitchen or somthing where both of you can get out and meat people. This my be to much for you to do alone I suggest talking to your ganmother or some other adult about it.0