Is there anyone who gives good advice on here. My mother died not long ago and I need someone to give me advice on how to deal with it, but when i posted a question all I got was trolls or sarcastic people giving me answers :( I keep crying all of the time
Most Helpful Guy
If you are crying a lot, that just means you are human. Crying is part of the healing process. Virtually every one of us will, or already has, gone through this. It just takes time. It WILL heal over time, but there is no way to rush it. It will take it's own course.
You have to allow yourself to grieve. You have to allow yourself to not be your normal self for a while. You also have to give room for others who are also grieving, each in their own way. It can be a trying time for family, so stick with them when they are not acting normal either.
There is no "correct" way to grieve. It's different for everyone. There is also no time line. There is not a time when grieving is over. The grief just fades slowly over time, until it's no longer a daily thought. You have to be strong and let time do it's thing.
Everyone goes through this. It's been going on since the beginning of history. Those of us who have gone before you made it, and so will you. What you are going through is being human. You have the strength. You can keep going. You know your mother would want you to keep going, and you will. Honor her by continuing with your life, and every now and then say "See Mom, I'm doing OK".
It's completely OK to cry. You can cry as much as you want.0
Most Helpful Girl
I've been thinking the same thing. People on GaG only answer to silly questions, they don't answer to the serious ones that people actually need help with.1