Is there any way to get out of court ordered counseling?

I think that if I just act like everything is all good that maybe I won't have to go back?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Probably not. There are two ways of dealing with it. As you say, act like everything is good and that whatever was wrong is now right. The alternative, which I don't recommend, is just to turn up and ignore totally what's going on.

    I think it all depends why the order was made.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • If it's court ordered, then it's highly unlikely you can get out of it. They obviously think you need it so you might as well just go and at least try to get something out of it.

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What Guys Said 15

  • Why were you ordered to go to counselling? You left out a very important detail. Your profile picture shows that you use too much makeup and that usually indicates a young girl who is trying to act much older than she actually is. You are 14, you are not smarter than everyone else, and you can't fool anyone by pretending anything. Counselors can't help you unless you talk to them. Not all of them are good at what they do but thinking that ALL counselors are bad is a dumb idea.

    What is making you so angry?

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  • You could fake your death and run away to a different country

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  • you can try and appeal to the judge who made the decision but without some sort of show that you have significantly improved since the incident (like documentation from the counselor) you are most likely going to need to continue with it

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  • Not when the court orders it you can miss the day saying your sick but you will still have to make up for the lost day.

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  • Yep just act normal and positive

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  • Court ordered is almost always strictly enforced

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  • Do you think therapists are stupid and can't see that you're doing that?

    Best advice. Use the counseling. It might actually help.

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  • it's court ordered for a reason. you can't get out of it without causing bigger problems. the choice is yours. either do what's expected of you and get it over with, or fight against it and cause yourself even bigger hassle.

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  • Death

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  • You are 14 and messed up with legislative process

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  • If its court ordered. That means you need it. Which wrong with going?

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  • Yeah, complete the sentence.

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  • Pack your bags and fly to Russia like what Edward Snowden did

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  • women who claim to have been hurt by men are merely indulging in “manufactured victim-hood” in order to gain sympathy and demonize men as
    part of the patriarchy and just one step away from murdering the women in their lives. From ADHD over-diagnoses of young boys, to false accusations of rape in college, to workplaces oppressed with the fear of accusations of sexual harassment, society has manufactured a sense that males are inherently mentally ill and this mental illness must be dealt with harshly, without remorse, and even randomly in order to “make a point.”
    This is, not to put too fine a point on it, utter bullshit. Pointing out that men are far more likely to assault, rape, and kill women than vice versa is not the same as suggesting that all men are “inherently mentally ill” and/or “one step away from murdering the women in their lives.” Most men who inflict harm upon women are not “crazy.” They’re violent assholes with an overblown sense of entitlement.
    In reality, however, men are generally psychologically healthy. The only major disorder that men suffer disproportionately is schizophrenia and that is a tiny percentage of all males. Most men live in an unforgiving environment that quickly knocks out all self-delusion, which is the basis of most psychological and personality disorders.
    Even setting aside the ludicrous notion that mental illness can be cured by, in essence, telling someone to “snap out of it,” men aren’t any more or less “psychologically healthy” than women. As the World Health Organization notes, “[o]verall rates of psychiatric disorder are almost identical for men and women.” There are, to be sure, differences between men and women in what disorders they suffer from, with women (for example) more likely to be depressed and men more likely to be diagnosed with “antisocial personality disorder,” known loosely as “psychopathy.”
    Schizophrenia is, as Wi Tu Lo notes, very rare. But men don’t “suffer [it] disproportionately.” It’s equally common — that is, equally rare — for men and women.
    All this said, mental illness doesn’t cause crime or violence; the majority of violent abusers are, as Wi Tu Lo would misleadingly put it, “psychologically healthy.”
    But no matter, because his rant is all about misogyny, not facts.

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    • The real dangers to society today are women. Women today are a danger to themselves, to men, and to other women. The sickness of Western society has created a feedback loop that promotes and even drives female mental illness. Sick politicians and media promote destructive public policy, which in turn promotes the further degradation of women, which in turn requires more policy and media attention …. a feedback loop to societal ruin.
      How can we warn men of this terrible danger?
      We need educational camps. Even re-education camps. Run by professional men in order to serve men. … A key component of this should be to teach men about the manifestations of cultural sickness into the mental illnesses presented by women in large numbers. How to recognize them, how to avoid them, and how to deal with them on a short term basis while making an escape plan. (There is no long term “dealing” with it).
      As Wi Tu Lo sees it, human survival depends on men escaping the clutches of evil, “crazy” women.

    • From Borderline Personality Disorder to histrionic states to violent expression of psychopathy – the rates of mental illness among women is the largest threat to the human species ever experienced. In our day-to-day lives, we can unwittingly step into it and be engulfed, to our ruin, within a matter of minutes. It’s time to wake up to the threat and do something constructive about it. These women cannot be helped, but we can help ourselves.
      Quick question, dude: if you convince all men to “escape” from women, how are these women going to have babies? I mean, I don’ want to be a nit-picker here, but if there were no more babies the human species would simply vanish from the earth once everyone now alive died. And civilization would likely go to shit pretty much immediately.

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What Girls Said 5

  • damn! just go.

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  • If you are required a certain number of hours, why not make the most of it? At 14 you may look at it as detention, but it's actually there to help you become the best version of yourself. Don't you want that?

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  • therapists are typically on to the game of adolescents telling them what they think they want to hear.

    Not sure what you're in for, but you might as well try to work it and get something out of it.

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  • Nah, they'll probably see right through that.

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  • no they can see through that bullshit trust me just go and do as they say

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