Do you judge people by the looks?

Such as the title


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  • No because as people get older looks naturally diminish but your personality is there no matter what. So personally I don't care how they look if their personality is awesome then who cares about looks because the prettiest person in the world could be a d bag but for all you know the "nasty" kid could be the nicest person you ever meet

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What Girls Said 29

  • Nope! As I got older I realized prejudging people only made me closeclosed minded and ignorant of people's difference's. The prettiest people do the ugliest thing's. Until I get to know a woman/man's character I speak or think no negativity. Even if they may look suspicious in most eye's. Of all the thing's to worry about in life, focusing in on who look's like a thief, a mama's boy, a plastic barbie or has a boogar on their nose and etc is not my problem to tackle. Yes people judge, but how far do they take it is a better question. Would you go out of your way... to assist a rich good looking man out with his tire, being stuck on the road that is?(but in actually is a pedophile, woman beater and war monger) But then you trun around and disrespect an immigrant mother who became a stripper to feed her kid's? Look's are deceiving af! I greet the janitor the same way I greet the CEO, baby. I try not to judge just by appearances that's all I'm saying. People who judge like that... ha well misery enjoys company.

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    • I agree with this. I make judgements, I'm not judgmental, that's just prejudice. I think everyone has something important to offer the world, conversation, relationships, etc. I was judged recently based on someone's hyper vigilance and perhaps low self esteem, it happens and don't hold it against them at all, I'm a bigger person than that, wish they were too.

  • It depends.

    If they look disheveled, dirty, have bloodshot eyes then a girl might judge you.

    If they just have an alternative style, not so much.

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    • What do you think about me them? I want you to judge me by the looks for once.

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    • Nah I'm a dork. Lol.

    • Well at least to me not a dork at all, from your appearance

  • Sometimes.

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  • It's human nature to judge. I try not to treat anyone differently based on how they look, though.

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  • Yes. It's not always bad judgements though. It's only initial and after that, I judge your character as well.

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  • sure. initially.

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  • we all do..

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    • Ya, we all do. Practical answer. Nice

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    • Yes it's not a good photo, the blurr because my room too dark , that's why not very clear.
      But all you said about me is ture, how did you know that? Well I'm not too shy with people, but I do stay alone most of the time, and avoids conversation with people, i'm glad you can see that from my appearance.

    • Because we're visual beings and that's how we're trained... that's why appearance matters

  • sometimes

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  • Yes. Someone's appearance tells you a lot about a person's habits and personality. Appearance also plays a big role in first impressions.

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    • What can you read from my appearance? Do you think I am a good person to you?

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    • It's just the impression you give. Since I don't know you, I wouldn't know.

    • Yes you're right, I am a nice and with a good temper ! Following me and talk to me, I'd like be your friend !

  • Everyone does, it's unavoidable. Doesn't mean that your first judgement has to affect how you treat them.

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    • Oh well, if you don't even like them from the looks, how can you treat them nicely?

    • ... Just don't be an asshole? It's not that hard.

    • Sure I won't be an asshole, and no one meant to be an asshole, but people can actingl like an asshole sometimes, I am a nice person just like you tho lol !

  • Nope I try my best not to judge

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  • Yes I do. I'm bad for it.

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  • Yes, of corse I do.

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  • Despite what we say, we all judge by the appearance. It's just a judgement though, doesn't mean it's the truth, but the way present ourselves in society can be very representative of who we are.

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  • I am always judged my my looks

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  • Everybody who says they don't is a liar.
    We all judge each other based on looks if subconscious or knowingly, we all do.

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  • Yep.

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  • We can't say NO ! Because the first thing you notice in a person is obviously the look '' u can'y read what's in their mind " ...

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  • Sometimes. Yeah I know you shouldn't, but it's hard not to.

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  • no i don't

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  • yeah, how a person looks/carries themselves can say a lot about how they are as humans. i modify my pre judgement as soon as i get to know them and if i'm proved wrong, so be it.

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  • Not physicality. But a lot can be made out from body language.

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  • I try not to

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  • Absolutely, its my first immediate point of reference.

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  • O yea slsometimes

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  • No I don't

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  • Did you used to be star_lord?

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  • Yes, I do, sometimes. Especially when they have a lot of tattoos.

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  • I try not to...

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What Guys Said 23

  • Nope
    It's usually wrong anyway

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  • Yes. This is a natural thing to do.

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  • Of course. 1st impression is critical for a lot of meetings. From how you dress to how you speak, all of those give the 1st look impression.

    If you dress like a street bum on an important court date for the custody of your child then you will pretty much leave a bad impression to the judge.

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  • It's really the first thing we naturally judge by. I think. What we think about the person can change significantly after we find other ways to judge him/her.

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  • I prefer they be judged by their stool sample.

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  • Everyone, initially judges people by looks as it's the first thing you notice about a person. Treating them differently based on your assumption is wrong and the cause of most of the hate in the world.

    Like I can get a vibe from meet a person and keep that expectation in the back of my mind. Doing so, can save me time and pain from trusting the wrong person.

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  • everyone does

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  • not in general no. e. g. i will still be friends with and go for drinks with some guy that I thought was ugly. or a girl - I will still have a nice conversation with an ugly girl. only for sex, relationships, etc. do I get more shallow but so does everyone else so no, I don't feel guilty.

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  • I really don't

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  • Immediately? Yes, i build a preconception. But i will give anyone a chance to change that if it's a negative one.

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  • no , that would be pretty dumb.

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  • We all judge the appearance of something or someone. Whether human, other animals, inanimate objects etc. Looks gets our attention first. Sure I do but I don't jump into the conclusion from the looks alone or that fast.

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  • I'd like to say I don't, and I would hate to say I take part in prejudice.
    Unfortunately I probably subconsciously do.

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  • Yes, I do

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  • only the ones that look really deformed

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  • it definitely makes a first impression... but I don't judge people solely on looks

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  • Nope 💁

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  • At first sight sure.

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  • Subconsciously we all do.

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  • Yepp

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  • Yeah, a lot of the time. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

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  • I stopped judging people from their look after getting to know my girlfriend, she was the main talk of people in high school who thought she is a slut because of the way she dress (tight jeans.. etc, they are dumb). I almost believed that until i got to know her she was way different from what people described her (she is so sweet and nice person, although it took me a lot to make her show her emotional side but it was totally worth it.)

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  • All the time

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