How did that work out? Do these kinds of decisions usually turn out for the worse or for the better? (not just in relationship choices but in all kinds of life choices).
Most Helpful Guy
yes, it went bad. I was warned in advance by her best friend it was not good... and she was a smart woman I trusted, I just didn't heed the advice. We were 40-50yr old adults.
Hearts bond in the sub conscious... the depths of the wounded children inside of us. And in our case, she was drawn to me as she saw her abusive father (although I wasn't abusive, but I Was like him in temperment), and I was drawn to her and she ended up being like my moody father.
BAD and painful, I had to end it. Use both... and always ask, what is it about this other person that draws me in.1
Most Helpful Girl
Of course I have but the experiences and lessons I learned for most of those decisions turned it into head over heart. But it is good to have a balance of both since going with your heart can be pretty vulnerable.0