Have you ever know before you got in a relationship/dating/talking that you would just end up hurting them or that they would end up hurting you? or that you would both end up hurting each other?
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Most Helpful Girl
no. i either think ell get a long or i dont. if i think we won't i dont get involved. anyhow everyone gets hurt. relationships just give you a chance to see how you can work through getting hurt and become more resilient to it in fixture,. but its unavoidable because everyone is different and has different sensibilities. no one person can avoid hurt or hurting. they can only endeavor to not do it intentionally, and to learn from it when it happens.
but if i think in advance ill hurt someone I'm not going to get involved. thats silly.1
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Most Helpful Guy
Yup! Most soul-suckers are pretty easy to spot - assuming you talk to them for a few minutes or so! Plus, I'm naturally attracted to the ONE chick in the room that is, by any and all measures, the absolute worst girl that I could possibly hook up with. And yeah, I usually figure it out pretty quickly these days, but that rarely stops me!
If I had (or rather used) half of a brain, I'd seek out the one that I had absolutely no interest in or chemistry with, then just grab her and run without thinking about it! :) Yeah, that happens a LOT!1