Ok , so I recently came into a windfall and I am using the money to finish my home.
I've given to a cousin who needed lab tests because he was sick.
I've given to friends and a coworker
And the rest am using to finish the house.
Since people found out, they started begging me to lend them 2000 for cars, 3000 grand paying laborers and some for doing their hair. All these people are working and I find their needs to be superficial as in not all that important. Its not like if they were sick or needed bills paid to avoid cutting off.
My cousin came today and asked me to give him 4000 to do a project. Should I?
I dont want to be walked all over but I feel like they are all just asking me to use me
- 1. Lend everyone who asks5% (1)0% (0)2% (1)Vote
- 2. Lend those that have real un- superficial needs5% (1)18% (4)12% (5)Vote
- 3. Focus on getting my home finished?74% (14)73% (16)73% (30)Vote
- 4. Other (please explain)16% (3)9% (2)13% (5)Vote
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You should use your money to do what you need to do first. If you have cash left over, then you can happily help out friends. Don't hand out cash willy nilly though, otherwise you may be taken for granted