So this girl has recently taking a liking to me which is a little flattering yeah, but I'm just not interested in her when if comes to dating. As a friend sure, but nothing more. Admittedly I should have done something sooner when I kind of had an idea she was starting to like me, but I thought nothing of it at the time. I want to be nice about rejecting her because she does have a horrible past when it come to men and I mean horrible. Plus she's really nothing, but sweet and nice, I might actually date her if I was attracted to her. Anyway any advice.
Most Helpful Girl
Just tell her straight and don't beat around the bush it does hurt more when you have go into detail just rip it off like a Band-Aid.
Tell her that you are not interested in a relationship with her ( make sure you add the 'with you' I can't stress this enough because if you say you don't want a relationship right now and then you start dating someone she will be like wtf) Tell her you like her as a friend but a relationship isn't likely and you're sorry if you have lead her on. ***WHATEVER YOU DO DONT TELL HER THAT THE REASON IS BECAUSE SHE IS UNNATRACTIVE*** Its so horrible and I would probably nut punch someone if they said that to me.
I would just like to add if you two get along well and she is a nice person, and you enjoy her personality why are you being so shallow? as friendships and relationships progress they become more attractive purely based on there personality. Don't be such a shallow prick.0
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Most Helpful Guy
"I'm sorry, but I'm just interested."'
Honesty is the best policy. Though, if you need to wimp out a bit just say that you're already seeing someone.0