I know it's inevitable, and you can't stop people from changing, but right now I would do anything just to see that side of them again. 😞
Most Helpful Guy
It's not that they changed. It's that they faked/pretended to be someone when they first met. The advice of "fake it till you make it" is used by a lot of people but once they've "made it" with someone they don't want to continue faking being something because faking is exhausting so they fall back into their old routine.
the fake it till you make it is one of the most immature dumbest pieces of advice that I see said by so many people.1
Most Helpful Girl
Most people tend to not be how they actually are when you first meet them. A lot of the time they put up a persona but then once they start to be more relaxed with you. That persona disappears and it can go 2 ways with that.
Most of the times I don't.1