My mom does that where she'll be so thrilled to meet someone then learn they went to an average university or studied something easy and consider them irrelevant.
It makes me wonder if everyone is like that or just her. This is a woman who never went to University but thinks she is better than everyone because she married a doctor.
its also really funny because my dad looks down on her and treats her badly but when she's in public she acts like she has a reason to be arrogant.
Most Helpful Guy
People in the middle east do this quite often. Parents want their children to be doctors (or any strong major) because it gives them a social status therefore when they knock a girl's house door nobody regects them. Although it's awful it does exist I think people have to learn that a degree is just a paper if u don't work hard after u get it plus our era is very different now people make money off youtube videos and people worship them so I don't treat a person any different whether he is a nuclear scientist or a regular staff what matters is how they are able to function with what they already have and how successful they are.0
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Your question is different from what you really looking for. I will answer into parts. It is probably normal to judge people's level of intelligence and importance based on their education. That doesn't make it correct or an absolute and there are exceptions but yes in general that's the way people think and that's there attitude. Your mother had another problem but you see that problem all over the United States people who are married to doctors believe they are hot stuff because they married a physician. I see it all the time.
I find it curious that your father will looks down on his own wife but I guess that's another story. Your mother needs counseling but you are not the person to suggest it. Actually your mother and father need counseling together but you're not the one to suggest it. My advice to you is don't let two crazy people screw up your life. You don't have to be your parents you can be yourself. What I advise you going to school and getting the best education you can? Of course and that is why I say don't let your parents screwed up marriage or relationship interfere with you being the coolest and smartest individual you know.0