My "to be" boyfriend told me that my brothers wife talked to him, I asked him what of and he said, "cant tell you its a secret". Not long, after my brother got married to her I found she was flirting with other guys after he left to military training and I heard many bad rumors of affairs she's been having. He didn't know that I didn't like her so I told him and he still hasn't told me what they were talking about... Should I break up with my boyfriend since he would keep something like that from me?
Most Helpful Guy
I'd say yes. It doesn't really matter what the subject and details were. It is an issue of trust within a relationship. If you can't trust him, if he can't be open and honest with you and have concern for your feelings, then this is no good.
When you break up with him tell him that, that you only require open and honest communication. He may not get that.. he's young... young guys can be pretty dense. Or he may open up, who knows.
Just do it and find another fish...
sorry to hear about your brothers situation, that is bad news...1
Most Helpful Girl
I just think there shouldn't be any secrets between couples, that he purposely is keeping it from you, you should be more important than your sister in law.1