I'm mixed (black and Mexican), but I identify as and grew up around black. I am all for interracial dating, but I don't see why it would be a problem for me to say that I don't like black women with white men. What gives other races the right to say that I can't feel this way about MY people?
Most Helpful Girl
First of all, just because you are half black half mexican doesn't mean you own a race. "Your people", it's not up to you to decide who should date who just because they share the same ethnicity as you. I am mixed as well (black, white, and hispanic) and my boyfriend is white. If people are happy together, then that's what should matter. Why does seeing black women and white men who are happy with each other not make you happy? Love is love, fam. Don't be ignorant. You know if a white person acted this way you'd be so offended.0
Most Helpful Guy
You feel how you feel, but why? Are you feeling inadequate because they choose white guys?
Do those guys have money, clothes, and cars?
If so, why would you want a woman that is so shallow, so stupid, to just date a guy because of money or status?
A 'Man' is a man, because of his integrity, his sense of honor and respect!! If some girl is just looking for dollars, why bother? Who cares what 'race'? She is a 'gold-digger' and nothing she has is worth all that drama!!!2