I remember 5-10 years ago, it seemed like guys were always chatting up women. But now it never happens anymore. Why not?
Most Helpful Guy
1. I'm kinda shy
2. I get anxious in social situations
3. I lack confidence
4. Women are always complaing about guys who approach them
5. I just can't find the motivation. Most women have probably sent nudes, blown, and had on the first date with guys they barrely knew. Then they meet guys like me and put on the whole "hard to get"/ "Im not that kinda girl" act.
Why do I want to go out of my way to ask a girl out, try to impress her, pay to take her on dates, and wait months for sex knowing they just do those things for free to random guys at parties and on tinder.
Id rather be one of those guys who gets it for free with no effort but I accept I dont have to looks, charm or confidence to be one of those guys so I just dont try.2
Most Helpful Girl
I always thought those who don't chat up women never did..🤔0