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Others might disagree, especially since I didn't go to college/university but sometimes I feel like I've been successful. Everything I have in my life, I earned it on my own. I come from an extremely poor background. I moved out when I was 19, and I've slowly been accomplishing the little things as I go. I now make good money, have a very good savings account, just finished paying off my car and I am looking into buying my condo. I've done all this without help from family or friends. I moved an hour from everyone I know when I was 22.
Although, other times I do feel like I am a loser. I did just pay off my car, but because I was poor, I didn't actually get my license or a car until I was 25. I had no one in my family to teach me when I was 16 to drive. Any money I earned either went to buying things for school, or to help out my mom. So I am actually behind my age for that. I am also going to be 30 in September and I have never had a relationship and I am still a virgin.
So my definition of being successful changes, especially when it comes to myself.0