So I have a homegirl that I hang out with almost all the time and we are both attractive, nice bodies and when we go out, we both get hit on by guys but I notice sometimes more guys hit on her than me and it kind of bothers me a little. it almost feels like a competition or something lol but like I could have 4 or 5 guys who hit on me in a night and she have 6 or 7 estimating. Esp last weekend was the most ever we been hit on and guys were stopping her more than ever before and I had some guys too. Is it normal that I pay attention to how many guys are hittin her and me? it slightly bother but not too much since I am getting hit on a lot too.
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Yeah, I think it becomes a bit like a competition even if we don't alway want to admit it. It's because us girls often seek validation from others, especially guys. When we get attention we feel good about ourselves so naturally we also check out the competition and how we do in comparison to others. I know its bad to think this way but sometimes we just can't help it. But yeah, it's completely normal. I have attractive friends myself and I do it too on a subconscious level.1