I'm not super attractive, I'm pretty awkward, shy, I like to draw and watch anime (but not obsessed with it), my voice is deeper than a regular girl, and I barely have any curves or hips. Is this why I single? Because I have all these unattractive traits?
Most Helpful Guy
You're still single because people typically don't start dating and having relationships until later on in high school. Additionally, you're still a teenage girl. I know you might not feel like you're much to look at right now, but you'll feel differently about yourself as you grow into a young woman (late teens/early 20s).
Best not to worry yourself with it right now. As you grow physically into a young woman, you'll (hopefully) become more emotionally mature as well. This will help you to know a little better what you'll want AND need in a relationship. At this stage in your life, you're vulnerable to fall for anyone and anything that comes your way and that is not good.
You're growing into it. You're fine.1
Most Helpful Girl
Umm.. I'm not super attractive, either, I'm shy, and I am actually obsessed with anime, even Korean bands and dramas, well the thing is you're looking down on yourself.
I dont like my nose, and then I start to over think and then I feel ugly, I look ugly!
But, then I shook off that thought, and try to think positively, and I try to convince myself even if I dont like my nose, or my ears, I still can't do anything about it, I was born with that shape.. So I just try notto thinkabout it, everyone gets insecure, but you gotta learn in your own way to cope with your insecurities. And seriously, it's not unattractive, I think it's cute, your voice might not b as deep as you think it is, you are insecure this is why you just think everything about you just isn't pretty.
Dont be depressed, you're in your early teens, everyone goes through that.
Maybe you're single cuz you're soulmate is busy drawing anime and he might as well be a Naruto or a once piece fan.. Feel good about yourself, exercise, eat right, be happy. Someone will join you sooner or later.0